Friday, November 28, 2008
Tradition...
Giving isn't a new tradition, you may think.
The sort of giving I have in mind is not your typical gift.
Pray about how you treat people this Christmas. A man in New York was killed today because of greed. He opened a door and was trampled by a crowd of people eager to save a few dollars. When the crowd was asked to leave the store, some complained that they had been there very early and they continued to shop! Lord, help me to remember that we are all only human and that you love each of us, even when we are unlovable.
Pray about how you speak to people this Christmas. I have seen people yell at others and get into fights over the latest toy. Not everyone behaves like this, but I have seen it too many times to dismiss as a rare occurrence. I have seen cashiers berated for an item scanning at a different price than what the customer said it was on the shelf. A simple smile and some sympathy for the cashier's plight during this busy retail season is generally appreciated. But I ask that you pray about how you speak not only for strangers. Our families often are on the receiving end of our frustrations and callous remarks. So often, I see that I speak with more courtesy to a stranger than I do to my husband and children. Lord, remind me to treat my family with respect, because they are my family.
Pray about opportunities to give this Christmas. (and then give) My girls often ask to put money in the buckets for the Salvation Army. Every opportunity that my girls have to give is priceless. This last weekend, we packed up into the truck with a friend and headed to a local church. We volunteered with the Angel Food Ministries distribution day. It was wonderful to see my girls, and their friend, so excited about helping others. Giving does not have to be for the world to see. Giving can be done with money or time. I enjoy giving my time because I gain from the experience. Lord, help me to find ways to focus on You and others this Christmas.
Our main tradition at Christmas time is to focus on family, but mostly to focus on Jesus. We remind our girls that Jesus did not stay a baby in a manger, but that He grew, just like them, and that eventually He paid the penalty for our sin because He loves us so much. But we also tell them that the story does not end with Jesus' death. We have hope for our future, regardless of our past, because of His glorious resurrection.
Let your actions and words be gifts to each other. Peace be with you.
Rom 12:1
And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice-the kind he will accept. When you think of what he has done for you, is this too much to ask?
Rom 12:2
Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is.
Rom 12:3
As God's messenger, I give each of you this warning: Be honest in your estimate of yourselves, measuring your value by how much faith God has given you.
Rom 12:4
Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function,
Rom 12:5
so it is with Christ's body. We are all parts of his one body, and each of us has different work to do. And since we are all one body in Christ, we belong to each other, and each of us needs all the others.
Rom 12:6
God has given each of us the ability to do certain things well. So if God has given you the ability to prophesy, speak out when you have faith that God is speaking through you.
Rom 12:7
If your gift is that of serving others, serve them well. If you are a teacher, do a good job of teaching.
Rom 12:8
If your gift is to encourage others, do it! If you have money, share it generously. If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. And if you have a gift for showing kindness to others, do it gladly.
Rom 12:9
Don't just pretend that you love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Stand on the side of the good.
Rom 12:10
Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.
Rom 12:11
Never be lazy in your work, but serve the Lord enthusiastically.
Rom 12:12
Be glad for all God is planning for you. Be patient in trouble, and always be prayerful.
Rom 12:13
When God's children are in need, be the one to help them out. And get into the habit of inviting guests home for dinner or, if they need lodging, for the night.
Rom 12:14
If people persecute you because you are a Christian, don't curse them; pray that God will bless them.
Rom 12:15
When others are happy, be happy with them. If they are sad, share their sorrow.
Rom 12:16
Live in harmony with each other. Don't try to act important, but enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don't think you know it all!
Rom 12:17
Never pay back evil for evil to anyone. Do things in such a way that everyone can see you are honorable.
Rom 12:18
Do your part to live in peace with everyone, as much as possible.
Rom 12:19
Dear friends, never avenge yourselves. Leave that to God. For it is written, "I will take vengeance; I will repay those who deserve it," says the Lord.
Rom 12:20
Instead, do what the Scriptures say: "If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink, and they will be ashamed of what they have done to you."
Rom 12:21
Don't let evil get the best of you, but conquer evil by doing good.
Holy Bible, New Living Translation ®, copyright © 1996 by Tyndale Charitable Trust.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
The list
*******UPDATED******** And I still need ideas for the "no clue" group!
- Michael- not yet
- N- not yet
- A- yep
- Mom- yep
- Daddy- not yet
- Mama- yep
- Laura- yep
- Scott- yep
- Miss Arty Pants- not yet
- Sweetness- not yet
- Stealth Man- yep
- The Ark- yep
- Rachel- yep
- Andres- yep
- David- yep
- Alex- yep
- Miguel- yep
- Sarah- yep
- Andrew- yep
- Shery- yep
- Jessica- yep
- Rayna- yep
- Ethan- yep
"yep" = I have the gift in my house
"not yet"= I have an idea, but I don't have the gift in the house
"partly" = I have a portion of the gift and I'd like to add more to it
"no clue" = I need an idea for a Christmas gift...PLEASE HELP!!
Most of you know this is amazing for me to have the majority of my Christmas shopping done BEFORE Thanksgiving. Now, we'll see if I can mail the gifts that need to be mailed before Easter...
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Have you ever?
Have you ever?
Bold the things you’ve done.
1. Started your own blog
2. Slept under the stars
3. Played in a band Does the high school band count??
4. Visited Hawaii
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Been to Disneyland/world- I used to work at Disney World, so I have been there a couple of times!
8. Climbed a mountain
9. Held a praying mantis
10. Sang/played a solo - I've sung many solos at church & for choir in high school. I also played the flute and did Solo & Ensemble competitions.
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea - does being on the beach & watching the lightning storm count? If so, then I've done this, otherwise, I have not...
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning
17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown your own vegetables - I have what is known as a "black thumb" I look at plants & they die...
19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France
20. Slept on an overnight train
21. Had a pillow fight - I didn't really share a room with my sister, but we had many fights. Some included pillows
22. Hitch hiked - Twice in one day. It was interesting to be sitting in the back of a truck with a soccer team and a tiny crab. In Ecuador, I learned that hitch hiking is not a quiet thing like here in the States. Here, you stick out your thumb and hope someone stops. There, you yell the name of the place you want to get to and when someone slows down, you run & hope you can make it into the back of the vehicle before they speed up.
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill - Michael wanted me to spend the day with him & after my physical therapy appointment that day, I called into work & said I wasn't feeling well.
24. Built a snow fort - We played in the snow when we were in Wyoming. By June, I was ready for spring!
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
27. Run a Marathon
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset- Living near the beach, I have seen many beautiful sunrises and sunsets.
31. Hit a home run
32. Been on a cruise
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing- Only on the rock wall thing on a play set at church. We had a child who was too scared to get down so, I climbed up to get him.
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
41. Sung karaoke
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant - I don't think we bought the entire meal, but we at least contributed $10 toward it. Michael was home on leave & we were eating lunch with some friends. A little girl & 2 men (dad & grandpa) came into the restaurant. The little girl looked so tired. The men treated her as if she was very fragile. She appeared to have lost the majority of her hair. The men kept urging her to eat a little bit and she would. My heart broke at the sight. We didn't have much money at the time, but I knew that what we did have, we needed to give to this family. I asked our server to take $10 off of their bill because I wanted to pay that much. She did. I don't know if the server said anything to the family, but I felt good knowing that I had been obedient to what God had prompted me to do.
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight - After our theater performances, we'd go to this restaurant called Herbie K's. Then we'd walk through the pool area of a nearby hotel to get to the beach.
46. Been transported in an ambulance - N was coming a little sooner & quicker than expected. I had the truck at work, Michael was almost an hour away at his work. My contractions were 4 minutes apart & steadily getting closer. My boss couldn't leave because the only other gal working was 16. So, when the ambulance crew got there, I was told that I was the calmest woman in labor they had ever transported.
47. Had your portrait painted
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie - In the live audience for a filming of The Mickey Mouse Club.
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
62. Gone whale watching
63. Gotten flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy - My lion, Larry; my bear, Apple Jack; my doll, Lolly Dolly; my parrot, T-Bird; my dog, Snoopy; and several others that my mom saved & sent to me
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial - We lived just south of DC for a while, so we visited a few times.
71. Eaten Caviar
72. Pieced a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London - I also saw the guard change at Windsor. There was a large gate & a smaller gate next to each other. We expected the men to go through the larger gate so I stepped over to the opposite side to take pictures. The men walked through the smaller gate and I was backed up against the wall trying to keep out of their way. I did manage to get several pictures. It was a somewhat scary experience for a 12 year old...
77. Broken a bone - I hit a wall and later I hit my sister. My hand started hurting after I hit my sister. She has a hard head! :D (Love ya Rachel!)
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle - Michael likes to ride fast...what can I say?
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book
81. Visited the Vatican
82. Bought a brand new car
83. Walked in Jerusalem
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire Bible
86. Visited the White House
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
88. Had chickenpox
89. Saved someone’s life
90. Sat on a jury
91. Met someone famous - I met several Christian artists at Disney's Night of Joy. Which, by the way, is probably the WORST nights to work. I did crowd control and it was NOT pleasant.
92. Joined a book club
93. Lost a loved one - More than I can count
94. Made a baby
95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
97. Been involved in a law suit
98. Owned a cell phone
99. Been stung by a bee
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Romans 1:16-32
How often have I failed to give God thanks for who He is? How often has my mind become dark & confused because of trying to imagine what God is like instead of going to the source, God's own word?? How many times have I failed to worship because I simply "didn't feel like it"?
Lord help me to not be ashamed. Help me to walk in your ways and to remember to seek you daily.
Rom 1:16 For I am not ashamed of this Good News about Christ. It is the power of God at work, saving everyone who believes-Jews first and also Gentiles.
Rom 1:17 This Good News tells us how God makes us right in his sight. This is accomplished from start to finish by faith. As the Scriptures say, "It is through faith that a righteous person has life."
Rom 1:18 But God shows his anger from heaven against all sinful, wicked people who push the truth away from themselves.
Rom 1:19 For the truth about God is known to them instinctively. God has put this knowledge in their hearts.
Rom 1:20 From the time the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky and all that God made. They can clearly see his invisible qualities-his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse whatsoever for not knowing God.
Rom 1:21 Yes, they knew God, but they wouldn't worship him as God or even give him thanks. And they began to think up foolish ideas of what God was like. The result was that their minds became dark and confused.
Rom 1:22 Claiming to be wise, they became utter fools instead.
Rom 1:23 And instead of worshiping the glorious, ever-living God, they worshiped idols made to look like mere people, or birds and animals and snakes.
Rom 1:24 So God let them go ahead and do whatever shameful things their hearts desired. As a result, they did vile and degrading things with each other's bodies.
Rom 1:25 Instead of believing what they knew was the truth about God, they deliberately chose to believe lies. So they worshiped the things God made but not the Creator himself, who is to be praised forever. Amen.
Rom 1:26 That is why God abandoned them to their shameful desires. Even the women turned against the natural way to have sex and instead indulged in sex with each other.
Rom 1:27 And the men, instead of having normal sexual relationships with women, burned with lust for each other. Men did shameful things with other men and, as a result, suffered within themselves the penalty they so richly deserved.
Rom 1:28 When they refused to acknowledge God, he abandoned them to their evil minds and let them do things that should never be done.
Rom 1:29 Their lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, fighting, deception, malicious behavior, and gossip.
Rom 1:30 They are backstabbers, haters of God, insolent, proud, and boastful. They are forever inventing new ways of sinning and are disobedient to their parents.
Rom 1:31 They refuse to understand, break their promises, and are heartless and unforgiving.
Rom 1:32 They are fully aware of God's death penalty for those who do these things, yet they go right ahead and do them anyway. And, worse yet, they encourage others to do them, too.
Friday, November 7, 2008
Pray 7x7
I believe that prayer is one of the most important gifts we can give our children and our families. Through prayer, we can teach our children about a relationship with God. I read recently that sometimes people think the Lord's Prayer says, "Our Father who art in Heaven... gimmie... gimmie... gimmie..." Not so.
I want to teach my children that it is okay to ask God for things, but mostly that we need to seek His desires for us. What will be the Godly choice in a given situation? How would God want me to respond? But more than asking for things, I want my children to hear God's voice. I want them to enjoy His presence.
N was reading her Bible to A in the truck tonight. She asked what other verses were good to read because she had already read John 3:16 and Psalm 23. The only specific verse I could think of at the time was Romans 3:23. "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,"
But what a wonderful blessing to know that even though we have sinned and come short of God's standard, He loved us enough to send His Son to die for us and take the punishment that should rightfully be ours.
John 3:16 - "For God so loved the world (you & me & yes, even the person we think of as the most horrible person in the world) that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him, will not perish but have eternal life."
Gifts from a very special Grammy!
Monday, November 3, 2008
Birthday pics
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Pretty princess
Her party went very well. We did have a last minute change of location though. Instead of having the kids dodge the numerous fire ants in our back yard, we decided the park's playground would accomodate 9 children much better. It worked out very well. We did invite siblings, otherwise 4 children in our yard would have been managable.
A got several wonderful gifts. I told her who each gift was from and A made sure that they heard her say "thank you." She now has some new clothes, princess dress ups, princess stickers, and a Memory game. She has played with all of them tonight and she (gasp) willingly modeled the clothes. Perhaps though, it was done willingly because she got to show Daddy....
Once I am able to weed through the photos (and get permission from a couple of parents) I will post them for you to see.
Until then...I'm going to bed!
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Daylight Fades
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Reading Level
I'm not sure how this works, but I thought it was pretty cool for a high school grad! However, I think the reading level goes down with the more pictures I add...
Monday, October 27, 2008
Friday, October 24, 2008
Rachel
Let me tell you about my sister...
She is 17 months younger than me and I picked on her mercilessly throughout our childhood. I have since apologized and I hope she has forgiven me. We took dance classes together and had Sunday School together every other year. I think she was known as "Julie's sister" until she was in middle school/ high school. In high school, on occasion, I was referred to as "Rachel's sister", but it was infrequent at best.
Rachel has since graduated from Texas A&M University with a degree in Chemistry. (she is the book smart one! I have other talents) She married and has 3 adorable boys who keep her busy. And they are adorable because they are my nephews & I can send them home.
Now, Rachel is starting a new adventure. She has become an Independant Silpada Designs Representative. If you are looking for Christmas gifts, I know where you can find some! You can go to http://www.mysilpada.com/sites/rachel.salazar and find some beautiful jewelry.
I love you Rachel and I wish you the best as you begin this new business!
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Blessings abound
Tonight, a woman in our church came to me and told me that she had been praying that God would show her someone about her size that she could give a couple of bags of clothes to. Apparently, as she was praying, I walked into the sanctuary and she knew that she needed to give me the clothes.
I thought she was talking about maybe a couple of WalMart bags or a couple of paper bags. Instead, she brought 2 trash bags over to our truck. You know, those BIG, black trash bags. The 33+ gallon trash bags. I was speechless. (and yes Mom, I did say thank you!)
All I could think was "Praise God from whom ALL blessings flow!"
As I sorted through the bags, many of the items were way too big for me. (YAY!!) But then, I came across some items that looked as though they might fit. Of course I tried them on and modeled them for Michael because he is sometimes my best judgement on how something looks.
I now have 2 new, dressy shirts and 3 new skirts. Just what I needed for this winter as I work on losing weight.
Praise God from whom all blessings flow.
Praise Him all creatures here below.
Praise Him above ye heavenly host.
Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost.
Amen.
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Arrrgh!
My laptop was, fortunately, closed when it slid off the dining table a couple of days ago. When we picked it up and turned it on, there were all sorts of pretty colors and patterns, however, nothing I could really use.
So, until I get the computer looked at, I am using Michael's computer. Which I don't really know how to use all that well, since, ya know, it isn't mine.
Of course, I may just get the cable to hook it up to our TV. That would save the expense of repairs or a new laptop. The one Michael's looked at after this happened was about $1600. But it did have an 18.4 inch screen. Since he wanted me to have a bigger screen for my pictures, I figured that the cable would be the most cost effective option. After all, we have a 42 inch screen on our TV. That should be big enough, right?
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
PAIL Remembrance Day
If you know of someone who has lost a baby, give them an extra thought, hug, or prayer on October 15th. You acknowledging their loss could just make their day.
Friday, October 10, 2008
Photo Challenge # 3
I liked the marker floating out in the water as we made our way toward either Ocracoke Island or Cape Hatteras. Not your typical sign, but yet still something that points us on our way. It makes me think of the signs that God places in our lives. The markers that tell us we are on the right path. How many times do we (I) ignore those signs?
As stated in a previous post, a Nova that "runs good" makes me laugh!
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Ironic
After Michael's parents headed back home, I got on the computer to do some blogging and Michael started up the XBOX. I had barely finished checking email when a window pops up to tell me that one or more networks were detected near my computer. Did I want to connect?
Ummm.....of course I want to connect! So, after a few days of our wireless internet connection disappearing moments after the XBOX is turned on, Michael finally figured out what was going on.
The few days that I put up with it, I got pretty frustrated. After all, here I am trying to upload pictures and update my readers. Not to mention that a friend of mine is going through an extremely difficult situation and I was trying to stay updated with her. (think life & death literally!)
However, I have just connected to OUR internet connection, not someone else's, AND the XBOX was still on!
YAY for Michael!!!
And by the way, Larissa & Peter could use all the prayers they can get. Thanks!
Monday, October 6, 2008
Nova
The view from the top
This house was the assistant keeper's cottage. I think I liked this one better.
Clouds and ducks
Sunday, October 5, 2008
Girls
Michael's parents came for a visit this past week. On Thursday we took a ferry ride to Ocracoke Island. N was busy working on her journal of the trip.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Monday, September 22, 2008
Double trouble!
We were at church Sunday night while the older children were in practice for their Christmas play. These two were being a little loud and just a bit disruptive, so I took them out for a photo session. They both love the camera.
Collecting rocks.
Thursday, September 18, 2008
We have a name!
"Passion" does not refer to love, but to the Christian theological icon of
the passion of Christ
on the cross. In the 15th and 16th centuries, Spanish Christian missionaries
discovered this flower and adopted its unique physical structures, particularly
the numbers of its various parts, as symbols of the last days of Jesus Christ and especially
the Crucifixion. For example:
the radial filaments which can number more than a hundred and vary from flower
to flower were taken to represent the Crown of Thorns. The ten petals and sepals
can represent the ten faithful apostles. The top 3 stigmata
can represent the 3 nails and the lower 5 anthers the 5 wounds. The flower has
been given names related to this symbolism throughout Europe since that time. In Spain, it is known
as Espina de Cristo (Christ's Thorn). In Germany it was once known as
Muttergottes-Schuzchen (Mother-of-God's Star). Popular culture being what it is,
however, passionflowers and especially passionfruit are frequently
used with sexual or romantic innuendo, giving rise to such
uses as a one-time soft drink named Purple Passion.
In Israel they are referred to as
clock-flower (שעונית). In Japan, they are known as clock
plant (時計草, tokeisō?).
In North America
they are also called the Maypop, the water lemon, and the wild apricot (after
its fruit). Native
Americans in the Tennessee area called it
ocoee, and the Ocoee River and valley are
named after it. In Hawaiian, they are called lillikoi.Thank you to Melody for giving me the link to the Wikipedia entry. Amazing that this little flower can represent something so incredible. And just to be clear~ The above explaination of the flower is copied from the Wikipedia page that is shown in Melody's comments under the Unusual Flower post. And thanks to everyone else who chimed in to tell me the name of it!
Unusual flower
So, I drove over and took a few shots. Here it is from the side and then from the top. If anyone knows what type of plant this is from, I'd be interested to know what exactly it is. (ps- it grows on a vine)